Last week,i had an awakening. A realization that had such a profound effect emotionally on me.I realised that the most important people lesson in this world is
Treat others the way you would treat if you were them.
11 words. And yet,there is a message in those words that is utmost pivotal for anyone,especially in our society where people are mostly judged by their appearance than their inner personalities.
First impressions matter most to some people today unfortunately,which is why to the more talented but less attractive appearance-wise are getting overlooked day by day.
You hear it everyday. Teenagers are divided into 'nerdy geeks' or 'cool'. There is no in between.
For the 'cool-looking dudes/bi***es', some are humble,knowing that they are blessed physically. But IT IS THE OTHERS WHO THRIVE ON MAKING THE MOST OUT OF THEIR LOOKS WHO ARE DARNRIGHT MALICIOUS! THOSE WHO ENJOY TEASING THE LESS GOOD LOOKING WHILE ENJOYING THE LIMELIGHT. To them,it is just a joke.
But for the victims,it is pure hurt and hell. Victimization leads to isolation from society which eventually causes depression.
I was a VICTIM IN THE PAST.
Trying to shine,optimistic,but it all fell apart when i was less judged by other people.
It hits you so hard emotionally that you just want to hide yourself. When you face people,you do not dare look at their faces because you feel insecure. And it drives you crazy because you KNOW DEEP DOWN IN YOUR HEART,YOU WANT TO BETTER,YOU DESERVE BETTER! BUT YOU FEEL HOPELESS!
I have learned, that in life,you WILL DEFINITELY MEET THIS TYPE OF PEOPLE!
You have to avoid them at all costs.
Which brings to my original message. In life, always treat others the way you want to be treated if you were them!
I believe in karma. Fine,if you feel like embarrassing me or humiliating me today,i can take it. Because i know one day,you will get the same in return.
There is a saying
- Be careful of how you treat people on your way up,because you will meet them again on your way down-
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